Why We Have to Stop Waiting for Our Loved Ones to Change

As the loved ones of recovering addicts, and many of us being recovering addicts ourselves, we are all too familiar with the long, exhausting process of waiting to see if our loved ones will change, if they’ll get the help they need, if they’ll finally do what’s best for themselves and for our families. ManyRead More

Discovering The Underlying Unhealed Issues Fueling Our Addictions

As we solidify our recovery program, a great deal of the mental and emotional work we want to do revolves around exploring the underlying issues that have been fueling, perpetuating and exacerbating our addictions and mental health issues. We often focus more on the immediate symptoms we’re experiencing, the relapses in our addictive cycles andRead More

Euphemizing Our Addictions

There are various forms of denial we experience when it comes to addiction, and for many of us who identify as addicts, we’re often most in denial about the devastating effects our addictions are having on our lives. We try to avoid the painful truth of our problems by focusing on the seemingly positive effectsRead More

Assuming Responsibility for Changing Our Lives

One of our major setbacks in recovery is our inability to take responsibility, not only for our sobriety but also for making changes in our lives. We become complacent and comfortable with how things are, even when they’re causing us tremendous pain and discomfort. We stay within the safety of our comfort zones because weRead More

If you or a family member is burdened by trauma-induced, self-destructive behaviors, we encourage you to reach out for help as early as possible.