The struggle to become independent is scary and exhilarating. But, the good news is that your desire to be in charge and rely on only yourself can drive you to push forward and realize your goal of independence.
Why Independence Is Important
Self-reliance is opportunity. If you don’t need to run things by someone or have their approval, you permit yourself to rely on your instincts, skills, and knowledge. There are other benefits to being independent. A few examples of why being independent is essential include:
#1. Improved Self-Confidence
Independent people are accustomed to handling situations on their own. The knowledge that you can complete a task or handle an unexpected situation can increase your self-esteem. When you don’t need to wait for or ask for permission to act, you free yourself to act as you see fit. Independence can also mean you’re able to try new things you’re interested in versus fulfilling expectations. A result of your autonomy is discovering new adventures or interests.
#2. Decreased Emotional Turmoil
If you don’t rely on another person for approval, love, or another form of emotional support, you can reduce pain and discouragement. One caveat: getting together with friends or loved ones or having a support system doesn’t mean you’re not independent. Everyone needs human contact and healthy support systems to maintain their physical and emotional health.
#3. Financial Freedom
The knowledge that you’re not reliant on anyone to pay your bills or splurge on yourself is liberating. Financial independence can reduce your stress because you’re in control of your life.
#4. Healthy Decision-Making
Once you understand that your decisions affect you, making decisions may become more manageable. Your decisions can still affect others, but every decision you make will directly impact your life.
#5. Increased Opportunities
Independence opens you to more possibilities. You’re free to meet new people, travel, or explore activities. Maybe you thought about learning how to ride a horse. Perhaps you want to visit a specific place. Because you’re not dependent on anyone, you don’t need permission or financial or emotional support. As you explore the possibilities that exist when you are self-reliant, you increase your knowledge and open your mind to new ideas or cultures.
Self-Sufficiency as a Lifestyle
Independence is liberating. The more you embrace the freedom that independence provides, the more you increase your self-esteem. When you’re socially, financially, emotionally, and professionally independent, you control the who, how, or what in your life.
Independence is a state of mind. When you achieve emotional, professional, and personal independence, you are self-reliant. Every decision you make reflects your belief in yourself. You know the decisions you make impact your life, so you try to make the best choices. If you’re struggling with becoming independent, The Guest House is the perfect place to find peace. Our 52-acre estate near Ocala, Florida, includes several beneficial therapies like equine, meditation, yoga, or music. Your mental and physical well-being is our priority. To learn how we create individualized treatment programs to suit your needs, call (855) 483-7800.